DazednConfused
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Oh dear, I'm really just a rehabiltated sinner...
Oh dear, I'm really just a rehabiltated sinner...
So be his buddy then. But you are a glutton for punishment in my opinion. I would have left a long time ago.Hell, he would have made a great buddy before this.
I've sent her some links, and the forum info here, she even gave this forum to a friend who is begining to process his Poly. She has told me she may come here someday, but for now she feels that you all have given me some peace, and taught me alot, she seems to think it would take something away from me by coming here. I've told her that's nonsense, that Ive said nothing here I have any concern over her seeing.
My worry is she's processing this new lifestyle/orientation development all on her own. I really want to be able to help her, while balanceing the help I need.
Now she's flirting with his wife? Is this to please him? So he can fantasies about her with another woman? Or was this some vain attempt at making it right somehow? Is it so she can somehow get with her and then introduce the whole idea that she is with her husband also?
I see little in this for you as well. ...and seeing your partner happy only goes so far in my books. This is so one sided.