This is the introductions spot, typically where you would say hi and tell us a little about yourselves. For matchups you want the dating section at the bottom.
As for advice on where to meet someone, use OKCupid.com
Well, looking online you have two main options...
Polymatchmaker.com is the main poly-only online dating site.
OKcupid.com is a poly-friendly online dating site, though definitely not all-poly.
Basically ncpoly.org is the main state-wide email listserv. Also I believe the Timberlake is near the Triangle metro, so check out the Triangle Polyamory Meetup (meetup.com/trianglepolyamory), which is a pretty active group these days. About half of their events are in Durham, which should be about a half-hour or so drive for you, I'm guessing.