BrigidsDaughter
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lol. Another guy today messaged me to tell me he wants to be my next lover. I'm not even listed as available on OK Cupid.
Honestly, if it's in your profile, than it's fair game. At least in my opinion.
The only things I mention about sex in my profile is where I say I want a casual relationship but I explain that that isn't the same as casual sex, which I am not looking for, and somewhere else I say I'm not interested in anyone who identifies as strongly into BDSM (I was getting messages from guys who wanted to know if I would let them Dom me. Ugh). The kink is the part he responded to.
Hmm, should I take that stuff out?
Yeah, I think it depends HOW he brought in the subject of it. If it was related to what you say in your profile, I'd just say take it out of your profile to make sure others don't do the same.It would probably depend what the context was honestly. I don't mind openly discussing sex as long as I don't feel like I'm being pressured for it.
This one was fun! Not too practical, but he gets a lot of points for effort and creativity.
This one was fun.
Well, I am intrigued, and apparently we do match up over 90%, and I do understand that you are looking for a Secondary relationship, so here goes! This is the first time I've come across your profile on this site. I enjoyed reading about you a great deal. You're sweet and aggressive at the same time, (how that's possible nobody could likely answer but you), and your profile radiates a kind of (word?) Verve that attracted me to scroll through the entire thing.....You're open-minded and opinionated. You're classy and down-to-earth.
I think I need to reply to this one.
I haven't had an opportunity to reply yet. Busy day and busy life at the moment. Wedding in 10 days!
This one was fun.
Well, I am intrigued, and apparently we do match up over 90%, and I do understand that you are looking for a Secondary relationship, so here goes! This is the first time I've come across your profile on this site. I enjoyed reading about you a great deal. You're sweet and aggressive at the same time, (how that's possible nobody could likely answer but you), and your profile radiates a kind of (word?) Verve that attracted me to scroll through the entire thing.....You're open-minded and opinionated. You're classy and down-to-earth.
I think I need to reply to this one.
haha, you stalked me.
You are always in my top 3 matches in the area and I always think it would be great to get to know you but chicken out before messaging. Today you are the top match and I am feeling brave or something: so Hi. You sound interesting n fun. care to chat some?