I am not sure you can use a cervical cap with a condom. I know you can't use a diaphragm with a condom, the 2 latex surfaces rub together and can cause a tear.
Why not try a non hormonal IUD?
As for communication issues, see my sig in blue at the bottom of this post.
Why not try a non hormonal IUD?
As for communication issues, see my sig in blue at the bottom of this post.