Hi. Not really where to start, which usually means I ramble or say too little.
We are a couple, I'm a 39F and he's a 51M. We're in Spokane, WA. Our marriage has been open from the getgo, but monogamous by default, because finding appropriate people to join the marriage has been difficult.
I've done poly before, as a teenager, but would say my initial trio imploded in part due to a failure to communicate expectations on everyone's part. Also, teenage angst and self-discovery is not, I think, good for the longevity of any relationship.
Monogamy is the acceptable social default but it has not, for me, ever felt complete.
We are a couple, I'm a 39F and he's a 51M. We're in Spokane, WA. Our marriage has been open from the getgo, but monogamous by default, because finding appropriate people to join the marriage has been difficult.
I've done poly before, as a teenager, but would say my initial trio imploded in part due to a failure to communicate expectations on everyone's part. Also, teenage angst and self-discovery is not, I think, good for the longevity of any relationship.
Monogamy is the acceptable social default but it has not, for me, ever felt complete.