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Old 08-18-2017, 11:37 PM
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Originally Posted by Maenad View Post
In past 6 months or so he's been developing some very unhealthy coping skills, he started drinkink a lot, gambling a bit. ....So I have a general "not now" attitude towards his request because it doesn't seem like a healthy thing to do, since it looks like just another way to escape reality. But at the same time I'm not sure how much of that attitude stems from my fears of abandonment.
All of this did not start just 6 months ago. Perhaps his drinking increased six months ago, but your relationship snafu didn't come out of the blue. How much do you know about codependent relationship dynamics?
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