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Old 07-22-2016, 07:05 AM
Willough Willough is offline
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Thank you Kevin and KC and Leetah!

I get on a plane tomorrow thankfully. We put off this visit so I could help out with an event this weekend. I have to remember to avoid that mistake. I know I go crazy after 4 or 5 weeks.

So he went out tonight. He asked if I thought it was a good idea and we both agreed it might be nice if this happened and then I was able to see him right away. He pushed me to talk about it and I realized I'm afraid of trying to hide how I feel because I want to be good about this. I am afraid of telling him I'm feeling bad and him either shutting it down or hiding it. That is carry over from the past. But today he told me and I told him I needed to know I didn't have to be perfect. I asked him to reassure me of all the stupid things and he did. I feel pretty good right now. Knowing what's happening is a lot easier than not knowing.
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Old 07-22-2016, 05:27 PM
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"Knowing what's happening is a lot easier than not knowing."
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