Derbylicious
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Man, this pondering is going to take awhile. I needed today. Forget that, it will take my lifetime.
Do you think you can take that many sick days?
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Man, this pondering is going to take awhile. I needed today. Forget that, it will take my lifetime.
I might have to. I will see after the holidays I took on the weekend. The same stuff is coming up everywhere and is drowning me at the moment.Do you think you can take that many sick days?
I asked him that actually. Well, I suggested he bring someone he trusts and feels safe with. He didn't answer. He was too busy being angry, I think.If he can go anywhere with his buddy, why couldn't he go to your show with his buddy?
I'd go to the show RP. AND I'd love it too.
Give Ari a big hug for me when they get there. I wish I was there too!
I don't do that. I think that is my problem. Or perhaps the difference I have between others and myself. Every single fucking relationship I have I invest EVERYTHING into. It might not appear so, but I do. It makes for successful relationships if the person I do this with does the same... that I am happy about.
Oh man, can I relate. I am completely used up right now. You and I are so empathetic and take so much of other people's stuff on. We are caregivers, you and I, and when it comes to us being loved by others, there is usually no one left but ourselves.Yep, me too. That's one of the reasons I've been pulling back "into my shell" recently. I've limited myself to LITERALLY 2 people outside of the household that I talk to regularly in person, 2 online and a couple of threads I read on here. I just can't take it right now. It's too damn painful to expose myself to when I'm already hurting over the mess with Maca.
I love ya RP. You're a strong, beautiful, smart woman.
Woohoo!! Great show last night Lilo You're sexy, gorgeous and one vibrant lady! I love you XOXO
RP, I am sorry but Leo just doesn't seem worth the hassle. At all. Especially when you've got the loving PN and Mono by your side.
Seconding the sentiment!
I dunno. From over here, it looks like it's done. Why beat a dead horse? I've learned that, for me, long explanations are counter-productive when it's time to let someone go. Just give the most succinct, concise reason and be done with it. No one can argue with a simple, "This doesn't work for me anymore."RP: here's an idea I've passed around to others, I feel you could use it, along with some huge hugs, right about now.
Write out what's bothering you about this situation with Leo, what you want to tell him, how things are making you feel, what you want to see happen.
Having it in writing seems to help me get those thoughts to gel into a more coherent form and gives me a more concrete something to base a decision on.