Bluebird
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Well my period is all over so I am good for another month. Ugh I freaking hate it. The last few months have just been weird in that the amount is so much less. I think I used a total of 8 or so tampons - and only a couple of those ever got saturated. Even overnight! Like, what? I was expecting an ungodly mess because of having to take Plan B, but I guess not.
I ended up switching my schedule around this week because I was concerned that I was going to be away from home too many days in a row. As much as I love spending time with SirGawain and CornFlower, I would still miss my husbands. Plus lately it seems like I can’t manage to get anything done here at the house. Ok - that’s not true. More like I can’t manage to get everything done. Lol
So, I canceled Wednesday night with CornFlower and we met up on Tuesday instead. We managed to have fun in spite of my period - we messed around without penetration anywhere for quite a while and then he put on a condom and finished inside me wearing one. It was fun to be sliding around on each other - he dry humped me from behind for a while - but he is so freaking quiet that it was hard to gauge if he was enjoying himself as much as I was. I had to keep asking him if things were good. How do you make someone understand that they need to be more vocal and forthcoming about what’s going on? It’s awfully strange sometimes. I do ask him, but he’s noncommittal when I seem to most need guidance or reassurance. Not reassurance - that’s the wrong word - like, should I continue putting effort into this position because it’s tiring AF, and if it isn’t doing much, let me know so we can try something more amazing. I don’t mind working it, if it’s actually doing something for my partner, but sometimes I have no idea with him. Especially with blowjobs. Each guy is so different about what they like and how they like it. After a month now and I still have no clue with CornFlower. I know I like him in my mouth though. Lol
Anyway, I spent Tuesday with CornFlower and yesterday I had planned to spend the day at home catching up on cleaning and laundry. I had a list a mile long. Instead, the day got away from me. PunkRock was working the 1 pm to 11 pm shift so I let him sleep when CornFlower dropped me off, and DarkKnight was on a call for work. I got myself some cereal and played a game of Dynasty Warriors before focusing on what I needed to get done. It was actually daunting.
I focused on the Blessing Box and filled it four times before 10 am, and got a couple of things put away. Mostly I fielded messages and someone came to pickup the double stroller I found for them. At 11 I woke PunkRock and since we both had errands to run, I met him while out, for lunch at a Mexican place. After eating I had to go to the UPS store and drop off an Amazon return (broken tray I bought for a special date with CornFlower - fucking replacement tray also arrived broken so I get to go return it AGAIN today. Then I went to snag the momma foster cat from the vet. There was some confusion there and she didn’t get microchipped. I brought her home and she smelled different so her babies were freaking out and hissing st her and she attacked one of them. So that was stressful.
I ended up having to take all of the fosters to the shelter clinic at 2:30, so I was only home for a half hour before I had to get back on the road. All of the kittens got their second round of dewormer and distemper shots, and momma got microchipped. There was a torrential downpour going on so transporting them was not fun at all. The whole thing was like an hour and when I got home, DRkKnight was off of work. He took my car and went to the gym while I got caught up on the Blessing Box again and started laundry - the towels in the cat carriers and the blankets I used to cover those with to shield the cats from the rain.
Brb
I ended up switching my schedule around this week because I was concerned that I was going to be away from home too many days in a row. As much as I love spending time with SirGawain and CornFlower, I would still miss my husbands. Plus lately it seems like I can’t manage to get anything done here at the house. Ok - that’s not true. More like I can’t manage to get everything done. Lol
So, I canceled Wednesday night with CornFlower and we met up on Tuesday instead. We managed to have fun in spite of my period - we messed around without penetration anywhere for quite a while and then he put on a condom and finished inside me wearing one. It was fun to be sliding around on each other - he dry humped me from behind for a while - but he is so freaking quiet that it was hard to gauge if he was enjoying himself as much as I was. I had to keep asking him if things were good. How do you make someone understand that they need to be more vocal and forthcoming about what’s going on? It’s awfully strange sometimes. I do ask him, but he’s noncommittal when I seem to most need guidance or reassurance. Not reassurance - that’s the wrong word - like, should I continue putting effort into this position because it’s tiring AF, and if it isn’t doing much, let me know so we can try something more amazing. I don’t mind working it, if it’s actually doing something for my partner, but sometimes I have no idea with him. Especially with blowjobs. Each guy is so different about what they like and how they like it. After a month now and I still have no clue with CornFlower. I know I like him in my mouth though. Lol
Anyway, I spent Tuesday with CornFlower and yesterday I had planned to spend the day at home catching up on cleaning and laundry. I had a list a mile long. Instead, the day got away from me. PunkRock was working the 1 pm to 11 pm shift so I let him sleep when CornFlower dropped me off, and DarkKnight was on a call for work. I got myself some cereal and played a game of Dynasty Warriors before focusing on what I needed to get done. It was actually daunting.
I focused on the Blessing Box and filled it four times before 10 am, and got a couple of things put away. Mostly I fielded messages and someone came to pickup the double stroller I found for them. At 11 I woke PunkRock and since we both had errands to run, I met him while out, for lunch at a Mexican place. After eating I had to go to the UPS store and drop off an Amazon return (broken tray I bought for a special date with CornFlower - fucking replacement tray also arrived broken so I get to go return it AGAIN today. Then I went to snag the momma foster cat from the vet. There was some confusion there and she didn’t get microchipped. I brought her home and she smelled different so her babies were freaking out and hissing st her and she attacked one of them. So that was stressful.
I ended up having to take all of the fosters to the shelter clinic at 2:30, so I was only home for a half hour before I had to get back on the road. All of the kittens got their second round of dewormer and distemper shots, and momma got microchipped. There was a torrential downpour going on so transporting them was not fun at all. The whole thing was like an hour and when I got home, DRkKnight was off of work. He took my car and went to the gym while I got caught up on the Blessing Box again and started laundry - the towels in the cat carriers and the blankets I used to cover those with to shield the cats from the rain.
Brb