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Old 05-21-2018, 08:14 PM
SEASONEDpolyAgain SEASONEDpolyAgain is offline
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"I'm not going to blame myself totally for this, because, (as he would readily admit), he was often remiss when it came to issues of communication and engagement; regularly going days without more than a metaphorical grunt in my direction. Eventually, I couldn't live with being shut out, and would resort to what you describe above, in order to "say my peace" or feel like I was being heard. Unsurprisingly, it didn't help, and I eventually had to accept we have vastly different needs and styles when it comes to communication."

I pretty much came to the same conclusions. It became unnecessary once I had partners who wanted to go in the same direction that I did and had a similar needs in terms of communication.
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