And yes, I knew she had veto power & he would allow it. I didn't know he'd be a douchebag about not meeting my conditions for seeing me one last time. That has just added insult to injury. All part of the learning experience. I will get past it & use what I learned next time. I don't always get caught up in NRE like I did with guy...didn't happen with last guy, he got caught up but I didn't. And hindsight is 20/20 so I'm having all these insights now but it's not like I was saying this shit to myself in the forefront of my mind all along exactly. KWIM?