MonoVCPHG
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Outdoor BBQs!
I'm all about outdoor BBQs! It's not that I don't like socializing. I just don't like doing it in my little bubble.
Outdoor BBQs!
(but then again it could just be that you don't have any stuff! ).
I've got a bike and a torque wrench. What more does a guy need?
I love guests!
Power Tools! Oh wait that's me.
I've got nothing against guests in your room Lilo. It's the idea of people entering my space like the kitchen or bathroom and using the main entrance that disturbs me. It points out that although this could be potentially much better for us, it isn't quite ideal. Ideally we would have completely seperate suites so I can maintain my reclussiveness and you can hosts friends from all over
Only a month and a half and our trial begins!! Scary and exciting
I find it interesting that I will now be living with TWO men who are not into guests. While appreciate that they like their haven, I love guests!
Give them the downstairs, you and the boy take the upstairs and you can have your guests, the hermits can have their cave
Give them the downstairs, you and the boy take the upstairs and you can have your guests, the hermits can have their cave
hahaha RPs guests are going to have to crawl through her window. Hey wait a minute I might be one of those guests...maybe it's not so funny!
Great post Lilo. I am very good at transitioning but I have been trained to do that over a twenty year career of going away from home for months on end. I don't feel spacial separation as separation at all for the most part.
We're all nervous about how things will change or not change. I'll do my best to support you and know the same will be returned. Getting a door put in to connect the house could be more of a priority than originally thought.
Would it help if each of you made a list of your fears and concerns that the others can see and refer back to? Sometimes it helps to know someone else is watching out for your fears/concerns.
No nosy neighbor, no getting up at the crack of dawn to be driven home, only to sit and wait for everyone to wake up, no freezing cold truck first thing in the morning. Ahhhh... that will be nice.
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I will miss the window of Mono's bedroom. It faces East and the sun rises and shines on my body as I lie in his bed. There is a field outside the window with some tall trees that blow in the wind.
Do either of those basement suite rooms have a view of your garden? You have a beautiful garden, the view will be different but different isn't bad. And in the summer you get a blanket and lie out in the yard and look at the moon.