So.... I really hope I came to the right place for this..
I'm Cristine, I'm 22 and I've been married for 2 years..
Recently my husband asked me for permission to step out of the marriage and basically have a one-night stand.
Well over weeks of talking about it we decided that I'm okay with him having a relationship with someone else as long as I don't get forgotten about.. So that lead into further talk of us completely opening up our marriage and him having a girl-friend because I feel safer that way(STDs are very high in the city we live in.)
Well then we started talking about us both being open... thats when it got messy. The SECOND i started showing interest in actually taking part in all this he says... "you have taken what I wanted in the first place and twisted it into what you want." and then said that we will just scratch the whole idea and figure something else out to save our marriage.
Oh yeah... This all started because all we do fight and he is always very angry with me.
So anyways... now I feel like he just wanted permission to go cheat on me rather than actually try something new that might work for us.
Can anyone give some form of advise or anything on that?
I'm Cristine, I'm 22 and I've been married for 2 years..
Recently my husband asked me for permission to step out of the marriage and basically have a one-night stand.
Well over weeks of talking about it we decided that I'm okay with him having a relationship with someone else as long as I don't get forgotten about.. So that lead into further talk of us completely opening up our marriage and him having a girl-friend because I feel safer that way(STDs are very high in the city we live in.)
Well then we started talking about us both being open... thats when it got messy. The SECOND i started showing interest in actually taking part in all this he says... "you have taken what I wanted in the first place and twisted it into what you want." and then said that we will just scratch the whole idea and figure something else out to save our marriage.
Oh yeah... This all started because all we do fight and he is always very angry with me.
So anyways... now I feel like he just wanted permission to go cheat on me rather than actually try something new that might work for us.
Can anyone give some form of advise or anything on that?
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