New to poly scene

[Ofgreenink]

My girlfriend of 2 years and I are very interested in becoming a triad. I am looking on this site to find some information, ask questions, and quash any misconceptions we might have before we start looking for someone in hopes of giving any relationship we might have in the future the best chance.

[kdt26417]

Greetings Ofgreenink,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I looked at your other thread, and responded there briefly. I think the main thing is to expect the unexpected, things rarely turn out exactly as we think/hope they will. But a surprise can be a good thing, if you're open to it.

I'm glad you could join us here, and hope you enjoy your stay.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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Welcome aboard!

[Al99]

Hi Ofgreenink - and welcome to the Forum! I also noted that you had posted about your particular situation elsewhere in the Forum, and do commend you on your efforts to understand the dynamics of the situation and to engage in poly ethically. Best of luck on your journey! Al