evrchanging
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I have only made one post so far and be lurking around. To recap I am a 26 year old woman married to a 55 year old Transitioning Male to Female. We have been together 8 years and had 2 children: 2 and 7 years old. During this last year of transitioning her libido as just plummeted. We have a friend that we have known for over a year. We got very close and roughly 6 months ago we talked about it and decided it was okay for me to become sexual with this person. My married partner is my 1st, and he is only the 2nd person I have been with.
After smoothing out jealously and setting boundaries all is going great. They are both mono not wanting anyone else but they don't mind sharing me. Everyone is good friends with no weird vibes going on. We help each other out on our farms. Sometimes my wife goes over there for a get away to work on a project or two with him, very nonsexual. We all get together and make dinner together at least 2 times a month. He loves playing with the kids as he never had any.
My MtoF wife and I have been 7 year old free for 2 days. She just doesn't want to do anything sexual with me. It hurts that my lover and partner of almost 8 years now is as sexual as a rock. There are so many ways I have tried to get her to be intimate with me. I do not need penetration for a rock'n good time. She is transitioning so I so respect her space. I have my other partner which I see weekly, and sometimes spend the night. Right now I would like to ring his neck for being such a butt. He is lonely, understandable, but so needy right now its driving me away. Its so hard to be the spoke in the wheel sometimes. I do love being able to give love, and attention to another in need. I was going to spend the night with my lover last night but I just so tapped out I needed me time. There is so much I want to talk about and sort through but I don't have anyone anywhere near my odd situation. Does it even fit in the poly threads?
After smoothing out jealously and setting boundaries all is going great. They are both mono not wanting anyone else but they don't mind sharing me. Everyone is good friends with no weird vibes going on. We help each other out on our farms. Sometimes my wife goes over there for a get away to work on a project or two with him, very nonsexual. We all get together and make dinner together at least 2 times a month. He loves playing with the kids as he never had any.
My MtoF wife and I have been 7 year old free for 2 days. She just doesn't want to do anything sexual with me. It hurts that my lover and partner of almost 8 years now is as sexual as a rock. There are so many ways I have tried to get her to be intimate with me. I do not need penetration for a rock'n good time. She is transitioning so I so respect her space. I have my other partner which I see weekly, and sometimes spend the night. Right now I would like to ring his neck for being such a butt. He is lonely, understandable, but so needy right now its driving me away. Its so hard to be the spoke in the wheel sometimes. I do love being able to give love, and attention to another in need. I was going to spend the night with my lover last night but I just so tapped out I needed me time. There is so much I want to talk about and sort through but I don't have anyone anywhere near my odd situation. Does it even fit in the poly threads?