AnnabelMore
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Hell yeah, Nyc. *downs glass*
I think I must be watching too many novelas lately. I was hoping to read that you invited him to stay at your place and had a hawt time together!I'm by no means happy this happened to him, but it was kind of amazing to be able to jump in and rescue him -- nothing says "I care and I'm glad we're friends" like helping someone move all their possessions in the middle of the night.
I think I must be watching too many novelas lately. I was hoping to read that you invited him to stay at your place and had a hawt time together!
Sounds lime an amazing evening!
I wonder about your hesitation with Davis: as things are right now, do you feel your connection and relationship is satisfying? Does your hesitation come from becoming more "primary", making commitments that practically limit your future choices, like living together?
I'm thinking, maybe it's just not for you two. If that it not what you want, I don't think it will become what you want... I don't think it will be that even if you really want to want that, or if you know it's what he wants. I'm not sure if it's good to think in terms of "what if this and that (and he) changed, then I would maybe want to live with him". Maybe it would be more fair to both of you to say "I love you as you are and our relationship satisfies me as it is, but I don't feel like I want to move further. If this if not a relationship style that will satisfy you, you need to consider your other options.". Do you feel that statement would be true? (Only assuming you are satisfied in the now.)
The most fun part was an exercise where we listed out, as a group, aallll of our favorite "powerful femme icons" from history, mythology, pop culture, etc. Everything from Kali to mermaids to Jean Grey. Then she asked us to pick out a few favorites and write down their names and the qualities we associate with them. The list of qualities, she told us, could be used for "inside-out" work -- inner traits we can cultivate to feel more confident claiming the dominant role. The icons, she said, could be used for "outside-in" work -- styles and mannerisms we could adopt to "fake it til you make it". I thought it was a beautifully fun and individualized way to explore the topic. She advised any aspiring doms who were there with a "partner or consort" to steal their list as highly useful intelligence. I later gave mine to Gia, she seemed very pleased to have it.