Thank you all for the advice and support! His trips are starting to get expensive, and he has only taken two to go see her I don't have a job, I'm a stay at home mom and no family to be with me. I have a friend here who likes to help out but when my husband is away, I try to avoid her since she doesn't know about all of this.
I normally would like the idea of pumping and having my husband give bottles, but he has to change shift every two months and so sometimes he may not be home to do that for me. I co-slept with my son and it was wonderful, I never had to really get up with him, just roll over and fit a boob into his mouth and he was good to go So night feedings probably won't be to much of a problem
My husband asked if I would like to have another relationship and gave me the green light, but I don't feel comfortable with it. Maybe sometime in the future I might find that I would like too, but for now, I'm so body shy and embarrassed to do anything intimate. It took my a long time to finally get comfortable with my husband, which he blames on my strict upbringing. My mom wasn't the friendliest when it came to sexuality.
We still try to get out without our son and have dates. Just depends if we can find a babysitter. So not very often I think I am going to get him to take me on a nice date since he went off for the weekend
I normally would like the idea of pumping and having my husband give bottles, but he has to change shift every two months and so sometimes he may not be home to do that for me. I co-slept with my son and it was wonderful, I never had to really get up with him, just roll over and fit a boob into his mouth and he was good to go So night feedings probably won't be to much of a problem
My husband asked if I would like to have another relationship and gave me the green light, but I don't feel comfortable with it. Maybe sometime in the future I might find that I would like too, but for now, I'm so body shy and embarrassed to do anything intimate. It took my a long time to finally get comfortable with my husband, which he blames on my strict upbringing. My mom wasn't the friendliest when it came to sexuality.
We still try to get out without our son and have dates. Just depends if we can find a babysitter. So not very often I think I am going to get him to take me on a nice date since he went off for the weekend