opalescent
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I rarely get the nasty comments so many women do but got a doozy today! From OKC.
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Normally I would just block the asshole but I decided to try and make a teachable moment. And, no, I do not expect this to work.
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[His profile is completely empty and he has answered no questions. 0% match. I don't respond.]'Hi, how are you?'
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[a few minutes after I look at his profile]'REALLY???? LOL'
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'just as well....my bed has a two ton weight limit....you would break it lard ass '
Normally I would just block the asshole but I decided to try and make a teachable moment. And, no, I do not expect this to work.
Me:
I find the whole thing just so sad and just puzzling. Why try to hurt a stranger this way? (I am fat but I also like myself so the insult did not hurt me as he wanted.)'Being cruel to others won't make you feel better about yourself. Might feel good in the moment but ultimately just highlights your lack of self-worth.
I didn't respond because you have nothing in your profile. Nothing to tell me anything about you. You've answered no questions. Your message was generic. I don't respond to people who have blank profiles.
I don't owe you a response. No one does. If you can't handle that basic fact of life - that everyone gets rejected and that no one owes you anything - do not date online. Don't date at all until you get that sorted out.
Go learn if you dare. Here's a place to start: http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2012/06/privilege-entitlement-dating/all/1/. Sadly, I suspect you won't read it but I hope otherwise.'
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