Hello! I am in a long term relationship (almost four years now!) with my fiancé and we did not even know what poly was until late last year. We still did not know anything about poly when we started a rather disastrous relationship with a woman. That relationship did not end very well but it did open our eyes to the world of Polyamory (and made me realize that I had been repressing the fact that I am attracted to women for years) and since then we have done much more reading and researching on the topic. We are still very new to everything and have some stuff to work on but we are in it together. Recently I have kinda started a relationship with a wonderful man but it’s very complicated at the moment. I joined this sight because I was hoping to maybe use it to get some 3rd party advice sometimes.