Theotherhut
New member
Well all. I am very new to this. I have felt a connection to the poly lifestyle nearly my whole life but have had nothing but negative feedback from all around. I am the son of a pastor so you can see where everything started. I am divorced. My wife and I had problems one of which was that she could not understand how I could love more than one woman at one time.
We ended up breaking up and I dated another woman for a while. My daughter asked me once why her mother did not like my girlfriend. I told her that some girls want to be the only person to love a particular man. She asked what would be so wrong with having two woman that loved one man. She said she didn't understand why I couldn't love both of them at the same time. Such wisdom and clarity from a 5 year old. My hope is that she does not become repressed into conforming to conventional thinking.
We ended up breaking up and I dated another woman for a while. My daughter asked me once why her mother did not like my girlfriend. I told her that some girls want to be the only person to love a particular man. She asked what would be so wrong with having two woman that loved one man. She said she didn't understand why I couldn't love both of them at the same time. Such wisdom and clarity from a 5 year old. My hope is that she does not become repressed into conforming to conventional thinking.