Now, before I start this post, I want to say that I know I've asked a lot of questions on this message board because I'm new, and if this bothers anyone (or if this question in particular bothers anyone), please let me know.
I was just wondering how to refer to my relationship with my husband and my GF, as people on this message board have called us a V and a triad. My GF and husband have both told me they love each other (and they say it to each other occasionally), but have also told me they would never be sexual with each other alone (only when I'm around, are they). They also say I am the most important person to them and that the other one is secondary to them.
Interestingly though, they both say they would be friends with each other even if I weren't around. Even more interesting, my GF says she wouldn't be fully committed to and in love with me without my husband. She says she has known for many years that she would only fall completely in love and be committed to a couple (MF, FF or transgender MM).
Hmmm... I don't know what to make of all of this, and thought that you smart people might have a clue. Thanks for any thoughts you might have.
I was just wondering how to refer to my relationship with my husband and my GF, as people on this message board have called us a V and a triad. My GF and husband have both told me they love each other (and they say it to each other occasionally), but have also told me they would never be sexual with each other alone (only when I'm around, are they). They also say I am the most important person to them and that the other one is secondary to them.
Interestingly though, they both say they would be friends with each other even if I weren't around. Even more interesting, my GF says she wouldn't be fully committed to and in love with me without my husband. She says she has known for many years that she would only fall completely in love and be committed to a couple (MF, FF or transgender MM).
Hmmm... I don't know what to make of all of this, and thought that you smart people might have a clue. Thanks for any thoughts you might have.