Ok... So for the past 5 years I've been happily married to my husband and amazing partner in life. We have three beautiful children and a functional life style that we enjoy. Occasionally we invite other women into the bedroom for fun. In the past it's never escalated beyond that. Yesterday a woman left or house after staying for 4 days... We had.sooooooo much fun, drinking and dancing and making love all throughout the night... Swimming and playing with the children all day.. Going to the gym, preparing meals together... Youuuuuuu know...normal life stuff... Not just sex. I really enjoyed her company.... My husband enjoyed her company... He kept relating her to me...saying how she has so many similar interests.. She behaves "like me"....well what I'm getting at here...he's all ready to move her in....wants a second wife.. I'm feeling a tad bit threatened/jealous...like I'm being replaced... Very unrealistic.. I'm confused because I have noooo reason to feel that way..she's a good girl...lives the kids.... Is a great help around the house... Fun in bed... If I were single I'd consider her... So why not now? I think maybe society has taught me what to think and how to feel...to be jealous...when it's just sex, I'm thrilled to see my husband just going at it.... I can't get enough...but when he's emotionally attached...suddenly I'm jealous and sad....could it be polyamory isn't for me...or was I just raised in a society that denies its people love? I have three children... I don't stop loving one so that I might love another... Should I try to be more open to this?
Also... I see lots of one person with multiple partners...how many of you are more than two that all share each other together...at the same time?
Also, also... I come from a very religiously ruled family...how do you come out with your polyamorous lifestyle?
Also... I see lots of one person with multiple partners...how many of you are more than two that all share each other together...at the same time?
Also, also... I come from a very religiously ruled family...how do you come out with your polyamorous lifestyle?