My name is Chris, I recently got out of a mono relationship and was domestically abused. I need to get out and try new things and enjoy life. I am tired of being used and not knowing what is out there. I am not a cheater and not looking to become one. I just want someone or someones to spend the rest of my life with and to enjoy life and try new things. I am a former pastor and still hold my license but no longer preaching. I live in Western NY and not sure if there is anyone in this area who is looking for a relationship that is slow and steady and not cheating, abusive, or boring.