Derbylicious
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I'm hoping we're not talking the animal here! I think RP would be even less comfortable with me putting clothespins on her little pet than she would with me putting them on her!
It didnt use up a whole roll! Barely even a quarter, I reckon. Good bondage for a person like me inexperienced w rope and not owing any dungeon tackle.
Thank you all. Due to the responses I've read on this thread, and the research I've done with the local BDSM community and on FetLife, I've gained new understanding, something I've been seeking for nearly two years.
I'm a submissive who is not into pain or humiliation. I've happily learned that you don't have to be into pain or humiliation, or *have* to be into *anything*, that you get to define yourself and no one else gets to. I've learned that my desire to please has an outlet, and I don't have to let anyone tell me that it's unhealthy or co-dependent if it makes me happy to serve my partners. I've learned that you can be a sub and still be an independent, strong, respected and valued woman. I have joyously discovered that I don't have to fight the desire to serve my husband, something I fought because of the way my male relatives treat their wives, because the difference between me and them is that I am valued and I would not do it if there was no mutual respect in the relationship, nor would I be expected to. I have found answers about myself that tell me I am not a freak or an anomaly, I am not a victim, I am not degraded or humiliated. I am overjoyed.
Look around for Vet Tape too. Its something a little birdie told me would work well for bondage, and it does in a pinch...
sometimes tying all that rope can be a real turnoff.