BrigidsDaughter
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Happy for you and totally understand. *hugs* Glad to see that you are both starting to be able to explore more.
I totally get this. Mm, happy for you
Happy for you and totally understand. *hugs* Glad to see that you are both starting to be able to explore more.
TGIB has been involved in some D/s situations with other people, but it's not something he and I are interested in much for our relationship, so I both do and don't "get it".
However, I don't think anyone has to "get it" to see how happy it made you. That comes through in every sentence and makes me so happy for you!
I finally got a chance to read your fanfic and let me say -- very well done!
I'm sorry to read about the recent frustration, but your latest post was yay. Sounds like things are moving along slowly but surely.
I was thinking today about the evolution of my relationship with Gia. First she was my friend. Then she was my friend and lover. Then she was my friend and lover and partner. Now, if things keep going this way, she'll be all those things and also my dominant. With each new layer, there have been new things to discover, new dimensions. Each new piece of our relationship builds on what's come before.
Guys, just in case you weren't aware, dating a married woman with an infant, a full-time job, and time-intensive hobbies is REALLY HARD for all involved!!! Worth it, for me, with this woman, no question whatsoever on that score, but hard.
Dear woman, I think you just love deconstructing problems and issues and tossing serious things over in your mind. You love clarity, you can't stand uncertainty. You love questioning things, questioning everything! You like having projects and working them through to a conclusion. You enjoy directing your energies toward building and rebuilding something so it feels like a tangible accomplishment. If you look back over your blog, I bet you will find many instances where things are sailing along smoothly and yet you didn't let it be for long and, instead, wrestled with some demon/question/process/decision. You are not someone who rests on her laurels for very long.What the hell?
Is there some kind of hormone thing going on with me?
@SNeacail -- I get it, I do, as much as I can since I'm not actually dealing with what she's dealing with. I feel like such an ass for complaining when I *know* that she's having a much harder time than I am right now. Thank you for the perspective and advice. Once a month would be a dream at this point in terms of actual, planned dates. But the whole "Getting out for even 2 hours is a major accomplishment." thing is easy for me to lose sight of when my life is SO different, it's good to be reminded.
@BD -- Yeesh, kinda scary to hear that it's not necessarily gonna get much easier for another 17 years, and that's assuming that they don't have more kids, which they may... still, you guys are making it work, yeah?