Hi everyone! I’m new to the forum and poly and just looking for advice and hopefully to understand what this all means. Thanks for your help and perspective.
My boyfriend is married and poly but is only seeing his wife and myself. We’ve been together for a year and it’s been so emotionally hard on my part. I’ve never done this before and just kind of fell into it. . He’s asked me to move in with him and says he loves me. I have a lot of doubt and trouble believing him. Deep down I suspect I think that love from him isn’t worth as much because he’s poly and gives it to someone else as well. Like I’m not his person and if I’m not around, he isn’t lonely like I am because he has his wife.
Am I wrong about this?
My boyfriend is married and poly but is only seeing his wife and myself. We’ve been together for a year and it’s been so emotionally hard on my part. I’ve never done this before and just kind of fell into it. . He’s asked me to move in with him and says he loves me. I have a lot of doubt and trouble believing him. Deep down I suspect I think that love from him isn’t worth as much because he’s poly and gives it to someone else as well. Like I’m not his person and if I’m not around, he isn’t lonely like I am because he has his wife.
Am I wrong about this?