Hello! My wife and I are new to polyamory and have been married about 20 years. I have always felt a draw to it, mostly because I cannot imagine there not being enough love to go around and I don't particularly believe that we are destined to o lunes ever love one person. We discussed the possibility and my wife has started to see someone. It's been about 6 months and overall things are going well.
She is not fully convinced that this is for her. She has said that if her new relationship ends, she doesn't think she will do it again. She is in love with him, has been so much happier and fulfilled, and things between her and I have been better than ever. I am not seeing anyone and do not currently have plans to.
Her new partner is younger and a bit immature, but understands the situation. I'm curious if anyone has had a similar experience, being I'm a Vee but not the pivot, with the Vee not being completely sold out to the idea?
Any risks, pitfalls, potential issues? Thanks!!
She is not fully convinced that this is for her. She has said that if her new relationship ends, she doesn't think she will do it again. She is in love with him, has been so much happier and fulfilled, and things between her and I have been better than ever. I am not seeing anyone and do not currently have plans to.
Her new partner is younger and a bit immature, but understands the situation. I'm curious if anyone has had a similar experience, being I'm a Vee but not the pivot, with the Vee not being completely sold out to the idea?
Any risks, pitfalls, potential issues? Thanks!!