arenas that are poly friendly where i don't have to wonder if i am going to offend someone for my different views. kinda french canadian catholic mono mentality here in this mill town. i don't have many connections in the poly lifestyle other than the group that introduced the idea to me 13 years ago, and have been kind of been not advertising in the time since until recently. social media status change has brought about some interesting reactions, i will say. and i am happy that i am a member of this forum and other sites to be able to back up my lifestyle with some research and fact. i am really just coming out as bi AND as open, so it's difficult and scary.