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Old 08-11-2013, 05:05 PM
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Smile Looking for our own MMM Triad in Atlanta

We are a gay couple who has become very interested in starting a Triad monogamous relationship with other guys. One of us has affinity for all things southern/country We're open to all all ages 23+ to 30s; Gay/Bi it doesn't matter, we pref someone without too many hangups or baggage (e.g. wife, married, etc.)
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Old 08-14-2013, 10:55 PM
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Hello AtlGayTriad,
Welcome to our forum.

You might find our Dating & Friendships subforum helpful; check it out. Also if you want you can check out our various boards and threads, and see if you have any questions.

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Old 08-14-2013, 11:30 PM
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Originally Posted by AtlGayTriad View Post
We are a gay couple who has become very interested in starting a Triad monogamous relationship with other guys.
Many, many couples new to polyamory want to protect their relationship from jealousy, so think getting a lover who will love and lust for them both equally is the way to go.

However, finding this new person is quite a problem! The chances are 10% or less that a new lover will fall in love/lust with both of you equally. Also, him taking on a couple with their own shared history is extremely difficult, for him.

Most poly people find dating separately works much better. So, say you (Guy1) find a bf. Maybe after you and he establish a relationship, he finds he also thinks your original bf is cool and sexy. Then you get your triad. Maybe he just likes your OB as a friend, or maybe there is no chemistry at all and they are merely polite acquaintances.

Not saying you won't hit the lottery and win 5 million bucks. But, what are the odds?
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley

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Pixi (poly, F, 41) my nesting partner since January 2009
Master, (mono, M, 37), Pixi's bf since April 2013
BigGuy (poly, M, married, 43, dating me since June 2018)
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