I am sorry this happened.
I'm sorry to hear that they still were trying to "flip it around on you" even to the end rather than just being honest.
Because if they were honest and up front about it being a dead end here with them? Then they don't get to enjoy access to what you provide when you are there thinking there's an investment here? People don't usually choose to invest in dead ends. If they wanted something casual, they could have been up front about that.
I think breaking up with the them was the right thing to do.
Your needs weren't being met there and you were being treated like you were wrong to bring that up. You were not. You deserve to be treated well.
I am glad to hear YOU are treating you well and getting you away from these people in this situation. Take all the time you need to heal from this.
Again, I'm sorry it happened.
Galagirl
I'm sorry to hear that they still were trying to "flip it around on you" even to the end rather than just being honest.
They finally admitted my gf wasn't interested in me (no shit! Why didn't they admit that sooner and save me some time)
Because if they were honest and up front about it being a dead end here with them? Then they don't get to enjoy access to what you provide when you are there thinking there's an investment here? People don't usually choose to invest in dead ends. If they wanted something casual, they could have been up front about that.
I think breaking up with the them was the right thing to do.
Your needs weren't being met there and you were being treated like you were wrong to bring that up. You were not. You deserve to be treated well.
I am glad to hear YOU are treating you well and getting you away from these people in this situation. Take all the time you need to heal from this.
Again, I'm sorry it happened.
Galagirl
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