Not sure we’re to post this. I’m not new to poly at all. Have date a few different poly people. I have been single for about two years now and been trying to date but find it much harder then before let alone finding someone poly. I work nights, don’t bar hop anymore, and want a poly relationship again so I have been trying online dating again after finding one successful poly relationship on there. That lasted 4 months. Distance and time zone got in the way.
Anyway back to my problem. I been having a really hard time finding someone to date let alone poly. I can date monogamous and be just as happy poly as long as the person open, nice, and I’m attracted to them. But I feel in the last few years online dating has changed. The only thing guys want right away is sex or Netflix and chill. Forget about getting to know someone. Like hi I’m blank and who are you? They give first name but don’t think about asking anything other then sex or there gone. It’s really frustrating. On top of that I’m finding it even harder to find someone poly. So again frustrating.
I have tried okcupid, pof, feeld, tinder, fetlife, and few others. I live in a smaller town. Well not so small about 8,279 and live right on the border of the next town 10,695 so about 18,974 together. Lots of guys come here for work so it’s much more. I have found three poly relationship even if we’re not together anymore. I was happy at one time with them and been missing everything to do with it. I want to find poly again or someone date so bad that my skin tingles when I think about this. But I’m finding it so hard. So I’m need some help and advice.
Anyway back to my problem. I been having a really hard time finding someone to date let alone poly. I can date monogamous and be just as happy poly as long as the person open, nice, and I’m attracted to them. But I feel in the last few years online dating has changed. The only thing guys want right away is sex or Netflix and chill. Forget about getting to know someone. Like hi I’m blank and who are you? They give first name but don’t think about asking anything other then sex or there gone. It’s really frustrating. On top of that I’m finding it even harder to find someone poly. So again frustrating.
I have tried okcupid, pof, feeld, tinder, fetlife, and few others. I live in a smaller town. Well not so small about 8,279 and live right on the border of the next town 10,695 so about 18,974 together. Lots of guys come here for work so it’s much more. I have found three poly relationship even if we’re not together anymore. I was happy at one time with them and been missing everything to do with it. I want to find poly again or someone date so bad that my skin tingles when I think about this. But I’m finding it so hard. So I’m need some help and advice.