Hi there! I'm a 25 year old poly-bi female. I've been married to my husband (a straight poly) for 2 years, together for 4. Originally we misinterpreted our thoughts as those of swingers (which we are still open to being on occasion), but have come to realize the lack of emotional bonding that comes with that.
We never really searched for anyone else to date until we moved away from our families. They would never understand our lifestyle. But now that we live across the country, we came out of our shell and have since both started dating a great girl who is also poly.
The ideal situation in my mind would be a mff (or any other way you'd care to mix those 3 letters around) relationship, with the 3 of us monogamous to eachother. Our girlfriend has a male fiance, and dates other people as well, which I'm getting used to. Which really isn't hard since this is my first poly relationship anyways! lol.
Anyhow, I'm glad to have found you guys! It being my first time and all, I'm sure there will be issues cropping up that I could gain some wisdom from you to handle.
We never really searched for anyone else to date until we moved away from our families. They would never understand our lifestyle. But now that we live across the country, we came out of our shell and have since both started dating a great girl who is also poly.
The ideal situation in my mind would be a mff (or any other way you'd care to mix those 3 letters around) relationship, with the 3 of us monogamous to eachother. Our girlfriend has a male fiance, and dates other people as well, which I'm getting used to. Which really isn't hard since this is my first poly relationship anyways! lol.
Anyhow, I'm glad to have found you guys! It being my first time and all, I'm sure there will be issues cropping up that I could gain some wisdom from you to handle.
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