polybynature
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What I find interesting is that all my love interests are totally different from my wife...physically as well as personality.
The reason being is that 22 years ago, I was a totally different man than I am today... Back then, I had very little confidence and I was broken...My wife was the friend I needed at the time...My needs are different Now than they were back then...She is still my life long friend..
It may be the same for your bf...He may not want to let go of what he feels is his best friend. Now that your provide for his physical needs, all is fine for the moment... Just a thought.
very true smiles, he is much the same as what you are describing. there has just been a lot of hurt involved. its hard to watch him trying to a friendship when hes still grieving the marriage