Cherrypie725
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Hi
So where to start? I am from Wyoming. You can call me Cherry. I am Married- quite happily to G for 8 years. I am 26F and he is 28M. We have two beautiful little girls. I also have a budding relationship with T (26M). Before we met T, G and I were swingers for a little over a year. Before we started swinging, we were pretty open, and I had a couple girlfriends. This is different, especially for G. T is the first man I have "dated" since G and I got married. I never called myself polyamorous before... but I do think it is a part of who I am.
I met T at the bar. Something about him really struck me on a deeper level and so I discussed starting a polyamorous relationship with T - with G. That discussion led to a couple of -tense- days while G and I sorted out our feelings and whatnot but now things are really awesome. G is monogamous and so is T - although I am open to either man pursuing other relationships. Right now I have my hands full with these 2 relationships and being a parent that I cannot even imagine taking on more- but I love it all.
Embarking on this journey has been terrifying, and rewarding. I can honestly say that I haven't ever felt more "in tune" with myself than I do now. G is happy, but this was a major adjustment for him and at moments I can sense that he feels uncertain. I feel like I owe him the world because he has trusted me so greatly and is willing to let me have this whole other relationship and sacrificed time with me for it- which I know he does , mostly just for my happiness. Sometimes its a bit of a rollercoaster for us. T is awesome. I have asked a lot from him too, he is dating a woman who has a LOT going on and he has had to trust me, and trust my husband. T gets nervous when I kiss him around G - but its getting better. T just came out of a bad relationship that was screwed up on a lot of levels so working through those emotions with him has been an unexpected challenge.
At times I wish I had a crystal ball to peer a year or two into the future- because I really want to know how all of this will pan out. Some days have been incredible, some days have been hard. Which is why I am here. I hope I can find some kindred spirits to learn from. I hope to find people who are doing this, and doing it well. I am certain I am going to need advice.
- Cherry
So where to start? I am from Wyoming. You can call me Cherry. I am Married- quite happily to G for 8 years. I am 26F and he is 28M. We have two beautiful little girls. I also have a budding relationship with T (26M). Before we met T, G and I were swingers for a little over a year. Before we started swinging, we were pretty open, and I had a couple girlfriends. This is different, especially for G. T is the first man I have "dated" since G and I got married. I never called myself polyamorous before... but I do think it is a part of who I am.
I met T at the bar. Something about him really struck me on a deeper level and so I discussed starting a polyamorous relationship with T - with G. That discussion led to a couple of -tense- days while G and I sorted out our feelings and whatnot but now things are really awesome. G is monogamous and so is T - although I am open to either man pursuing other relationships. Right now I have my hands full with these 2 relationships and being a parent that I cannot even imagine taking on more- but I love it all.
Embarking on this journey has been terrifying, and rewarding. I can honestly say that I haven't ever felt more "in tune" with myself than I do now. G is happy, but this was a major adjustment for him and at moments I can sense that he feels uncertain. I feel like I owe him the world because he has trusted me so greatly and is willing to let me have this whole other relationship and sacrificed time with me for it- which I know he does , mostly just for my happiness. Sometimes its a bit of a rollercoaster for us. T is awesome. I have asked a lot from him too, he is dating a woman who has a LOT going on and he has had to trust me, and trust my husband. T gets nervous when I kiss him around G - but its getting better. T just came out of a bad relationship that was screwed up on a lot of levels so working through those emotions with him has been an unexpected challenge.
At times I wish I had a crystal ball to peer a year or two into the future- because I really want to know how all of this will pan out. Some days have been incredible, some days have been hard. Which is why I am here. I hope I can find some kindred spirits to learn from. I hope to find people who are doing this, and doing it well. I am certain I am going to need advice.
- Cherry