Polyglamorous
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So I am super excited, nervous and scared. I've posted a little bit about the situation I am in before. I have a crush on my partners friend. He has said he isn't interested but my partner says that its just a weird situation and he thinks if that was different he would like me. So I have held out hope for two years. Sometimes it seems like he might like me and sometimes he ignores my text and stuff. He still does stuff with my partner and I a lot like go to the movies and stuff but the dynamic of it doesn't give me a clear cut idea if hes doing it to spend time with his friend (which is probably the reasoning and I am just being to hopeful) I have posted in a poly environment about the situation before and received a lot of negative replies about how no means no and about how I am creepy. I hope that doesn't happen here. Partly because my partner has stated that he would prefer this relationship to work, opposed to others and because I honestly do like him. So the perfect situation arrived!! I think the will be the best way to resolve what has been a two year rocky thing. They put a show on netflix about something he really likes and my boyfriend will be working tomorrow. I invited him to come watch the show with me. So if he says yes then I think there is hope, and if he ignores me or says no then I will have my answer. Sometimes he takes awhile to text back though. So blahhhhhh I am nervous and excited. I thought I would share. Either way I am honestly excited because even if it is a no, that means it really is time to put these feelings and ideas and hopes in a box and let them die. haha.