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Old 08-30-2011, 03:04 PM
love2spare love2spare is offline
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Default Dipping my toes into something new...

I've been interested in polyamory for a few years but this will be my first look at what it really is and if it's for me. I'm bisexual so I think I am looking for a couple who would like a girlfriend. Being a senior, polyamory makes more sense to me than it did when I was younger. And I have a lot of love to give to both a man and a woman. I had considered a lesbian relationship but realized that I would like a man in my life as well, hence, the couple makes more sense.

So...here I go on a new adventure looking for love
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Old 08-30-2011, 03:53 PM
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Welcome, l2s. What a grand adventure you're embarking on! There's a lot to learn here and a lot of support.

I would caution you about thinking you only want to date a couple. I thought that, too, being bisexual. What I've ended up with and what works for me is relationships individuals. I have two men and two women in my life. It probably makes things a bit more...busy than dating a couple would, but it's the place my life has gone. If you find a couple and it works, that's great. Just don't discount individuals because they aren't a couple.

"But you've got to be tough when consumed by desire
'Cause it's not enough just to stand outside the fire
Life is not tried, it is merely survived
When you're standing outside the fire"
Garth Brooks and Jenny Yates
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