breathemusic
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Ah, then my suggestion would definitely be that both of you stop censoring yourselves and avoiding talking about your partners in front of them. In fact, purposefully find ways to bring it up. It's basically exposure therapy. But the less exposed they are, the easier it is for them to live in denial. Don't let them change the subject. Or you and glasses can have a convo about one of your partners while around them so they hear it, etc.