vanille
New member
I do not respond to most messages that I receive. I know that may seem rude to many of you. But there are a lot of messages, with very few hopeful leads. I am actually picky. If it is obvious that they did not read my profile, looks like they are not my type at all physically, send a message that is base with nothing to hold my interest (u r pretty)(want to meet?)(what's up).
I have pretty high standards (everyone has a right to them).
I don't want to waste my time or theirs.
I asked my husband (who has not gotten one response on the site and is actually sad about that) if he would prefer a friendly hello or even a dismissal to nothing at all (assuming the girl has no interest in him).
He said not, they would send him the message that she was interested (if they just responded with a polite hello), and a rejection is useless except to hurt his ego even more.
I have pretty high standards (everyone has a right to them).
I don't want to waste my time or theirs.
I asked my husband (who has not gotten one response on the site and is actually sad about that) if he would prefer a friendly hello or even a dismissal to nothing at all (assuming the girl has no interest in him).
He said not, they would send him the message that she was interested (if they just responded with a polite hello), and a rejection is useless except to hurt his ego even more.