I think there is a dynamic which has changed after some recent talks. I think greeneyes has been under the impression that I have had some unstated (and therefore dreaded and feared) desire - that I am trying to *make* something happen, rather than remove the restrictions that would *allow* things to happen. She has had a space for some time to talk about her desires, and I am simply wanting to assert my right to do the same.
I wanted to say something, because if we suddenly begin posting less here, it's not on account of any hard feelings =-)