ThreeStars
New member
Soooo I have a partner of four years (A) and a new partner of 6 weeks (R). Yes I am in total NRE and I hope I am handling it well. I think A would vouch for me in this regard. I live with neither.
Just yesterday I received a gift in the mail from my new sweetie (R). A book. A very very obscure book that is PERFECT! RIGHT UP MY ALLEY!
...and happens to be the exact same book that A got me years ago when we were in gobsmacked NRE.
Reveal to one? Reveal to both? Reveal to neither?
Both visit my house. The book should be visible? Not visible? Both copies?
Miss Manners didn't cover this one....
Just yesterday I received a gift in the mail from my new sweetie (R). A book. A very very obscure book that is PERFECT! RIGHT UP MY ALLEY!
...and happens to be the exact same book that A got me years ago when we were in gobsmacked NRE.
Reveal to one? Reveal to both? Reveal to neither?
Both visit my house. The book should be visible? Not visible? Both copies?
Miss Manners didn't cover this one....