Updating all around here - busy last couple of days!
I had a wonderful date day/night yesterday with A. I had actually failed to purchase movie tickets ahead of time, so we ended up seeing a later showing of the Hobbit movie - 6 pm instead of 2. Still, A said he would like to see me earlier anyway, so we met at 2 pm at a local coffee place. (I had chai.) He had brought a Lord of the Rings board game, and we played that, and chatted for a couple of hours. We then headed across the street and had dinner, before going to the movie.
The hilarious thing is that he brought along Hobbit slippers to wear during the movie. Since I had paid for VIP seating, we were in black leather recliners, and he was wearing Hobbit slippers. It was rather endearing. He held my hand and rubbed my leg all during the showing. Luckily, it was warm out, so I could wear a skirt and my legs were bare. I may have worn it for this express purpose.
Afterward, I drove us back to the coffee shop parking lot, so he could get his car, and I gave him some of my husband's homebrewed Winter Warmer. He asked if I wanted to get another drink before heading home, but the coffee shop was closed. At 8:30! Anyway, instead we talked in the car about all sorts of things. I got a text and realized it was 11 pm before too long. He apologized and I apologized and then started talking again and then it was midnight.
I walked him to his car - which was parked right next to mine! - and then we talked for another hour and a half before calling it a night. He hugged me and held me and yes, there were many kisses. He texted me when he got home. Today I friended him on Facebook.
He is now going to be out of town for the holidays, so I won't see him again until after New Year, which kinda sucks. He seemed upbeat last night though, and he has been texting me terrible puns all morning. He is a very funny guy and it is amazing how much we have in common. I really enjoy spending time with him.
He talked a lot about his girlfriend, and his metamour, and his metamour's other girlfriend. It's a little intimidating to be on the verge of entering such a tight polycule. They're all living together in a townhouse. He showed me photos of everyone last night, and I was instantly anxious about how attractive his girlfriend is. Well, maybe anxious is the wrong word, but it unsettled me a bit. She looked very friendly and open, but way skinny and hot. They're all younger than me and that is a little intimidating as well. I don't know why A would want to date me - I look so different from his girlfriend! I guess though, all of my guys are different. I'm not sure why he can't have different partners too. lol
I did see M today - he drove over to pick me up. We swapped presents. OMG he got me a Star Wars themed sunshield for my van. Not only is this incredibly awesome, but it's incredibly hilarious as well. This past summer we hooked up in the back of my van at the park and we were paranoid that someone would look in through the windshield and see us shagging. We had discussions about getting a sunshield, but never did. lol This one shows Han, Chewie, Lucke and ObiWan and it looks like they are in the cockpit of the Millennium Falcon.
After presents, he drove to pick my son up from work, and brought him back home, and then M and I went out to lunch. We talked a bit about my date last night, and my insecurity about A's girlfriend. He asked to see pictures, and I showed him, and he scoffed at me. He thinks I am way better looking, but he likes curvy girls, so his opinion isn't valid. lol He said at worst we were equal, but we're not. lol He tried to boost me but I was resistant. Then I decided I didn't really care.
I am not sure when I will get to see him this weekend - something about his wife's girlfriend's boyfriend being difficult with their scheduling - but he assured me it will happen. We talked some about warmachine and the upcoming tournament. I am excited about it and can't wait to start messing with my army and coming up with a list. I don't have any time until the end of the week and I hope to have something in mind before we see each other so I can practice with it.
Ugh. I have grocery shopping and present shopping still to finish up today! My husband is going to go along with me after he gets off of work in 15 minutes, thank goodness. There IS trivia tonight, so I think he and I are going to go play if we get everything done prior to that.