redpepper
Active member
I remember dating a million guys that thought that and unfortunately I let a few of them fuck me. It made me feel like an object and I set my self worth on that. That seems to be a lot of what dating is, especially when one is older and looking for love on dating sights.
Good for you for just leaving. I wish I had a few times... I was easily led and I consider myself a smart cookie... the trouble is that when I wanted attention and appreciation I let my trust of peoples good intentions get the better of me. Fortunately I found a community to discuss these things with and lovers that do give me attention and appreciation and have restored the values I hold so dear when it comes to sex and love.
Good for you for just leaving. I wish I had a few times... I was easily led and I consider myself a smart cookie... the trouble is that when I wanted attention and appreciation I let my trust of peoples good intentions get the better of me. Fortunately I found a community to discuss these things with and lovers that do give me attention and appreciation and have restored the values I hold so dear when it comes to sex and love.