I can say with 100% confidence that if I was happy in my job and I was not just scraping by financially I would be a boat load happier. I just don't feel like I am bothered by her OSO. I honestly like the guy. I am happy for her. 99% of the time I think about money and my job and maybe 1% may be something about being new to polyamory.
I am calling a career coach.
I am calling a career coach.