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Old 11-29-2017, 06:28 PM
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During a recent moment, my wife laughed and told me that she never thought that she would be such a slut - because she just loved that she got to (openly) fuck two different men, and even occasionally on the same day. I just smiled and said "well, you know - they say that poly-girls wear the slut title with pride".

Of course, in "The Ethical Slut", the authors reclaim the word "slut" and make it a title to be proud of. Anyone here ever given the reclaiming of the word any thought? Al
I don't think of slut as a derogatory thing, but I do associate it with casual sex and not sex within established relationships. I don't consider myself a slut anymore since I only have sex with 2 guys. If I start fucking around again with more random people, I'd feel slutty.
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Old 11-29-2017, 06:29 PM
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You know you're poly when you're trying to figure out a time/place to get a Christmas tree but have to coordinate 3 households' schedules and locations so it takes over an hour of planning. Lol
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Old 05-08-2018, 09:13 PM
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Happy Poly Moment (to borrow a phrase from "Cunning Minx's" podcasts) -

I finally got to spend a weekend with my long distance girlfriend that I met here on our forum ("Bouncing Betty"). I flew up to her locale where her local primary partner helped with the babysitting of her kids so that she could spend the weekend with me, and treated me like family with an apparent complete lack of jealousy. Saturday night, we had a get together at the bar where I also met her other secondary partner and his wife. Amazing experience. Al
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