Hello!
Would love to talk and hear from folks about this. I am in a polyamorous relationship with a serious primary partner (Sam). I am having an issue socially, as most folks are aware we are not exclusive and Sam is new in town (fresh meat lol).
Recently my neighborhood bar has become a lot less friendly to me, come to find out many of the folks there are interested in Sam. While it is good to know why my fave bar sux.... i'd like to know how to manage this.
Currently when I go there no one is interested in hanging with me, folks aren't rude, but certainly avoid actual conversation with me. Any time Sam goes to get a drink or I go to the pisser, someone has him deeply engaged and I can't even join the conversation. . . I leave bc it sux for me. Then folks make the move on Sam, he gets some fun make out time YAY! ... but
I want my bar back, what do i do?
Would love to talk and hear from folks about this. I am in a polyamorous relationship with a serious primary partner (Sam). I am having an issue socially, as most folks are aware we are not exclusive and Sam is new in town (fresh meat lol).
Recently my neighborhood bar has become a lot less friendly to me, come to find out many of the folks there are interested in Sam. While it is good to know why my fave bar sux.... i'd like to know how to manage this.
Currently when I go there no one is interested in hanging with me, folks aren't rude, but certainly avoid actual conversation with me. Any time Sam goes to get a drink or I go to the pisser, someone has him deeply engaged and I can't even join the conversation. . . I leave bc it sux for me. Then folks make the move on Sam, he gets some fun make out time YAY! ... but
I want my bar back, what do i do?