Hi everyone,
Over the last year I've become aware of polyamory and realised that all the parts of me I thought were defective were actually perfectly normal and that I do not have to be a monogomous person by default. I love my partner but I want to be honest with her about my feelings before I start to develop feelings for someone and it could just seem like an excuse.
She is extremely monogomous and a firm believer of your one true love. I really want to know how best to open up to her about this. I don't expect her to accept it or reject it immediately, I have no expectations from her at this point but I feel I need to be myself and be honest with her.
There has been no infidelity in our relationships and I have never acted upon my poly feelings but the older I get, the more I know this is the life I want.
Thanks in advance for your help everyone. Really need it right now.
Sophie
Over the last year I've become aware of polyamory and realised that all the parts of me I thought were defective were actually perfectly normal and that I do not have to be a monogomous person by default. I love my partner but I want to be honest with her about my feelings before I start to develop feelings for someone and it could just seem like an excuse.
She is extremely monogomous and a firm believer of your one true love. I really want to know how best to open up to her about this. I don't expect her to accept it or reject it immediately, I have no expectations from her at this point but I feel I need to be myself and be honest with her.
There has been no infidelity in our relationships and I have never acted upon my poly feelings but the older I get, the more I know this is the life I want.
Thanks in advance for your help everyone. Really need it right now.
Sophie