stormybrunette
New member
Hi all,
I am new to this forum after scrawling the internet for months researching poly.
My situation - live in the UK, Wales, married almost a decade, one child, M-Hetro F-Bisexual and both in our 20ās with good careers.
Some back story - For as long as I can remember I have been bisexual - something I have only recently admitted to myself after years of trying to fight it away. I am a Christian also, and worry how on earth I can reconcile this to my faith?! I have had a handful of sexual encounters with women during my teenage years and if Iām being honest, enjoyed them very much. Equally, the same with men. I am very much straight down the middle 50/50 which is hard going as Iāll always be missing a part of me whether I am with a man or a woman. Some may call it greedy but I didnāt ask for any of this
Myself and my husband have toyed with threesomes and foursomes in our younger years before I found faith at which point, I just couldnāt see a way to reconcile. Hubby is more than happy for me to see other women and weāve even discussed triads after watching the polyamory:married and dating series (which I know is often hard to find, especially once a couple is already established and we certainly donāt want to earn the tag āunicorn hunterā). Itās me with the problem. I am just so confused and have no idea what to do plus, to make t more difficult I think Iād like something committed if I were to go down the poly route such as poly-fi but then again, who knows?!
Anyway, VERY long intro so if youāve made it this far then you deserve a medal! I guess itās just nice to get this out in the open to people who may have some advice for us!
I am new to this forum after scrawling the internet for months researching poly.
My situation - live in the UK, Wales, married almost a decade, one child, M-Hetro F-Bisexual and both in our 20ās with good careers.
Some back story - For as long as I can remember I have been bisexual - something I have only recently admitted to myself after years of trying to fight it away. I am a Christian also, and worry how on earth I can reconcile this to my faith?! I have had a handful of sexual encounters with women during my teenage years and if Iām being honest, enjoyed them very much. Equally, the same with men. I am very much straight down the middle 50/50 which is hard going as Iāll always be missing a part of me whether I am with a man or a woman. Some may call it greedy but I didnāt ask for any of this
Myself and my husband have toyed with threesomes and foursomes in our younger years before I found faith at which point, I just couldnāt see a way to reconcile. Hubby is more than happy for me to see other women and weāve even discussed triads after watching the polyamory:married and dating series (which I know is often hard to find, especially once a couple is already established and we certainly donāt want to earn the tag āunicorn hunterā). Itās me with the problem. I am just so confused and have no idea what to do plus, to make t more difficult I think Iād like something committed if I were to go down the poly route such as poly-fi but then again, who knows?!
Anyway, VERY long intro so if youāve made it this far then you deserve a medal! I guess itās just nice to get this out in the open to people who may have some advice for us!