GirlWhoWaited
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She preaches polyamory but the only poly person here is her.
A husband, a boyfriend (primary) ..then me.
I've dated poly girls before. Its never been called that but I've been here. However not like this. I've never dated and lived with someone, all if us under the same roof.
She has been keeping my children while I work part time. She asked to be able to and I keep hers for her but she became discontented with this arrangement and broke things off. She seems to want to get back together but left me scrambling for childcare. I don't want to go back to the same relationship we had - with her sleeping most of the time - the rest spent with other people than myself. Never alone with me - even for my birthday, she made a big show of it but I just want one on one time with her.
Everyone thinks I've lost my mind. I think she is confused about polyamory. We all get along but she doesn't seem interested in a one-on-one thing anymore. Do I leave it alone and move out or is it possible since I know we both care, that when the dust settles, we can have time for us? Is she a lost cause?
I'm 100% lesbian.. and 100% in love. We have lived together 4 months and my kids ate attached.
A husband, a boyfriend (primary) ..then me.
I've dated poly girls before. Its never been called that but I've been here. However not like this. I've never dated and lived with someone, all if us under the same roof.
She has been keeping my children while I work part time. She asked to be able to and I keep hers for her but she became discontented with this arrangement and broke things off. She seems to want to get back together but left me scrambling for childcare. I don't want to go back to the same relationship we had - with her sleeping most of the time - the rest spent with other people than myself. Never alone with me - even for my birthday, she made a big show of it but I just want one on one time with her.
Everyone thinks I've lost my mind. I think she is confused about polyamory. We all get along but she doesn't seem interested in a one-on-one thing anymore. Do I leave it alone and move out or is it possible since I know we both care, that when the dust settles, we can have time for us? Is she a lost cause?
I'm 100% lesbian.. and 100% in love. We have lived together 4 months and my kids ate attached.