kemperfish
New member
Please provide advise on the following situaiton. It will be greatly appriciated. And, thank you in advance.
I am a 37 year old female with a primary partner. I just started dating alone and had my ad up on one of those sites that most of us can name. I got a response from a 27 year old male and I immediatley attempted to dismiss him because he looks at least 10 years younger than that. He would not allow himself to be dismissed and in a very intelligent and kind way convinced me to chat with him.
I have since learned that he is very interesting, smart, funny, and kind. I have also seen more pictures of him he is very attractive.
Here's the issue; is this appropriate? Will I be able to treat him like a man when he looks younger than my son? I realize I am reading too much into this, but I have no experience in this area. I hear that people in their 20's are different now, more mature etc.. I just need advice from someone who has been down this road or known of a similar situation.
Thanks again.
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I am a 37 year old female with a primary partner. I just started dating alone and had my ad up on one of those sites that most of us can name. I got a response from a 27 year old male and I immediatley attempted to dismiss him because he looks at least 10 years younger than that. He would not allow himself to be dismissed and in a very intelligent and kind way convinced me to chat with him.
I have since learned that he is very interesting, smart, funny, and kind. I have also seen more pictures of him he is very attractive.
Here's the issue; is this appropriate? Will I be able to treat him like a man when he looks younger than my son? I realize I am reading too much into this, but I have no experience in this area. I hear that people in their 20's are different now, more mature etc.. I just need advice from someone who has been down this road or known of a similar situation.
Thanks again.
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