Dagferi
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Are we screaming from the roof tops hey look at us we're poly. No. I am an extremely private person. I have no need for a large social circle or the approval of others. I am a classic INTJ personality. Like I said I live my life.
I am a Unitarian so no one blinks twice at church.
Murf comes to kid events be it school, scouts, sports. Butch gets introduced as Dad, Murf as Murf. I am sure most think in those circles that we are a divorced family who gets along well.
My two households are 20 miles apart. But Murf comes and stays with me from time to time. A trouble making neighbor thought she was catching me cheating and ran to tattle to Butch a few weeks ago. Butch told her bluntly that is Dagferi's other husband.
Like I said we just go about our lives. Murf's parents and family do not know. If they ask they will be told the truth. Just isn't important to bring up because they will never be around Butch unless we decide to have a.formal wedding ceremony for his family.
I am a Unitarian so no one blinks twice at church.
Murf comes to kid events be it school, scouts, sports. Butch gets introduced as Dad, Murf as Murf. I am sure most think in those circles that we are a divorced family who gets along well.
My two households are 20 miles apart. But Murf comes and stays with me from time to time. A trouble making neighbor thought she was catching me cheating and ran to tattle to Butch a few weeks ago. Butch told her bluntly that is Dagferi's other husband.
Like I said we just go about our lives. Murf's parents and family do not know. If they ask they will be told the truth. Just isn't important to bring up because they will never be around Butch unless we decide to have a.formal wedding ceremony for his family.
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